OH MY LOVE.. AGAIN...

"Life doesn't end when heartaches begin"

I guess all of us knows this love line..and we sure can relate to its meaning..

Being in love can be very over whelming.. Lets all be honest, every time cupid hits us with his bow we become blind,deaf and numb.. We all think that the person we love the most is a living proof that god did create angels..We worship them from head to toe.. We adore them.. They are our world...We don't see their flaws and hang ups.. We don't even believe our closest friend when he/ she tries to warn us that our prince/princess is a living nightmare... We ignore those nasty comments.. but at the back of our mind.. we all know that its true..

(Fast forward)..

Now, after the so called "love" of ours dumped us.. We mourn in front of our friends.. cursing..crying..while drowning ourselves with liquor and lighting a cigar every 5 minutes..

We tell everybody that we wanna die.. that we can't leave without them..yadah..yadah..yadah.. because of the bitterness that we feel inside we all cant help but sour grape.. (Its actually a phase that we all go through especially when we get hurt.. )We tell everyone about our partner's flaws, hang ups, his not so likable habits etc.. etc.. Though we tried regaining our pride and confidence.. we can't even stand up because our body has reached its limit.. We became so f***k*** wasted!

No matter how hard we try to forget and forgive.. its not gonna be easy.. and the road that we must be follow is gonna be rocky and bumpy.. Our lives maybe wasted for now.. not to mention our brains malfunctioned and we are all trying our best to hold our hearts to prevent it from hurting.. but..Sooner or later we will all see the light.. Will all be at the right track again..

Letting go is a learning process.. We just can't easily say that we are so over that person in just one blink of an eye..It takes time..But being stagnant of what we feel is a crime.. We don't have to mope around and feel sorry for ourselves the whole time.. We have to divert our attention to other things..We dont have to push ourselves right away.. Slowly but surely... Thats one key for us to become whole again..

"The Art Of Letting Go"

Put away the pictures.

Put away the memories.

I put over and over Through my tears

I've held them till I'm blind

They kept my hope alive

As if somehow that I'd keep you here

Once you believed in a love forever more?

How do you leave it in a drawer?

Now here it comes,

the hardest part of all

Unchain my heart that's holding on

How do I start to live my life alone?

Guess I'm just learning, Learning the art of letting go.

Try to say it's over Say the word goodbye.

But each time it catches in my throat

Your still here in me

And I can't set you free

So I hold on to what I wanted most

Maybe someday we'll be friend's forever more

Wish I could open up that door

Now here it comes,

the hardest part of all

Unchain my heart that's holding on

How do I start to live my life alone?

Guess I'm just learning, Learning the art of letting go

Watching us fade

What can I do?

But try to make it through the pain of one more day Without you

Where do I start, to live my life alone?

I guess I'm learning,

only learning, Learning the art of letting go.