Monday, July 14, 2008

Achey breaky heart





How can you tell when you're finally over her?

is it...

when there's no more tears to cry?
when you've thrown away the the love letters she gave,
and left all the memories behind?
when love has been converted to bitterness and pain?
when you start to ignore her messages and calls?
when you stopped yourself from believing that someday,
everything will be alright?
when you stop begging and saying your sorry?
when you accept everything though its killing you inside?
when you start dating someone else but deep inside you know that she can never be replaced?


The trickiest part of being left by the person you love is moving on..you are sometimes deceived by your own feelings.. you absorb the pain like a sponge and pretend that you don't care at all..You become too vulnerable and impatient that sometimes, you don't realize that you are already hurting someone else's heart..

why don't you ask yourself this..

What's the point?

If you wanna move on..don't just say it.. do it.. if you wanna live a happier life.. you have to force yourself to forget her.. Don't look for someone who can help you carry the burden that you are feeling right now..never commit if you still have hang ups..it may hurt at first.. but once you've reached the finish line, I assure you.. you'll be stronger than before... Being stagnant with what you are facing right now, wont do you any good.. Stand up and walk.. Don't let the person who hurt you be a hindrance in finding your missing half..

We all deserve to be happy.. right?

15 comments:

TENTAY™ said...

Awww jam I love it... and at least now, I have someone telling me that i deserve to be happy,... un nga lang ayoko muna madaliin. para enjoy lang diba nga... hay...

At least now, i can tell mejo ok na ako. di na ko masyado affected kahit naimbyerna nanaman ako sa tibay ng loob ni banky. Thanks to that someone na you know who.... in fairness. confused status na ko ngayon. aaminin ko na. hahahahhahay....

Jhamy whoops! said...

@tentay

....processing...


STATUS: CONFUSED
FEELING: H.P
GERGER MODE: OFF
KILIG FACTOR: 80%

TENTAY™ said...

lol jham... adik ka pak u ka talga... alam mo ba sabi nya akala daw nya bading ako. kasi ang brusko ko daw magsalita. lol

Jhamy whoops! said...

hahahha,,

bading ka palaaaa!!*tingin sa station mo*
bading!!bading!! wahahhaaa

*tambling*

Anonymous said...

kailangan talaga ng conscious effort to forget someone. as in remind yourself everyday, every minute, every second na iba dapat ang iniisip. anything but her.

the people who broke our hearts don't deserve our attention anymore. :)

Jhamy whoops! said...

@doc F..

-naniniwala ko kapag everyday mong kinukwento.. inaalala.. nakaktulong para maget over mo ung taong nanakit sayu.. parang therapy mo sa sarili mo..tapos magigising mo isang araw, pagod kana.. tpos wala ka ng pakiaalam..wala na ang sakit.. over ka na! yehey!!

Anonymous said...

ganun ginawa ko dati. isipin mo, magkasama pa kami sa apartment...

pero hindi talaga gumana e. parang lalo lang akong na-depress. saka lang naging ok when i got to spend time away from her.

Jhamy whoops! said...

@doc F
-atleast kahit papanu ok ok ka na!! basta after mong mg board.. inuman na!! :)

Madz said...

tambling naman yang post mo. haha. pwede ko ba isend dun sa guy na mahal ko kaso hung up pa sa ex niya (kahit di niya inaamin?) haha. joke!

hello jham jham. i missed you! pagpetix mode kayo sali kayo sa gossip girl caption contest. sabi ko pa nga kay tentay mananalo ka.

http://www.gossipgirlinsider.com/tags/gossip-girl-caption-contest/

Jhamy whoops! said...

@madz
wahahahah!!naman! wag ka lang tumambling.. split sa ere den!go send mo!!

mishu2 gandang babaita!! petix mode nga ako nayun!kaya uber bloggy mode ako!haha!!cge.. pero dehins naman ako masyadong hook sa gossip girl.. nakalimutan ko na nga yung ibang episodes.. haha!!

keep safe!

Madz said...

keep safe din. amishoo girl. haha. bat ikaw petix mode. si tentay toxic mode? hahaha.

Anonymous said...

huwaw.. drama mode :D

just stay cool.. lilipas din yan... parang gutom lang ang love... minsan masakit sa tyan.. minsan hindi..

para mawala ang gutom.. kumain ka na lang ulit...

Bryan Anthony the First said...

simply do what works for you...

Jhamy whoops! said...

@madz..

d ko lam gerl.. sumusunod lang ako sa mga batas militar dito..

@richard..

haha!!salamat! tara kain tayu!pero hindi sakin yan.. para sa mga beloved frends kung sawi ang post na to..

@bryan

salamat sa pag daan.. *apir!*

emotera said...

i like this post jham pang sawi tlga..ahaha..

pag nabigo ako ito ang babasahin ko lagi...:)