Monday, April 11, 2011

Fwends...


Friend

An acquaintance; A comrade;Someone you like and trust.




They say no man is an island, that is true. I have lots of friends. Childhood friends, schoolmates, people I met online, office mates, friend of an ex that became close to me. People who became part of my own little world. Laughed with me, cried with me and built memories with me.


There are three things life has thought me about friends. One, I've learned that there are seasonal friends and there are friends for keep. People come and go. I know. Friends who stays and loves you in spite and despite of your differences,back you up when you need help, gives you the last piece of kfc friend chicken even though she/he are starving, those are for keeps.


Second, Sometimes we need to choose our friends. Some can be nice to you when you re with them but when you re not looking, they'll stab you to death. There are lots of bitches in our world, so we have to be cautious.


Third, Life thought me not to fall in love with your friend. The mere fact that you are in the same circle, you share the same set of friends and that you are so close to being best buddies. Just think of it, once the relationship ends, its gonna be a hell of a roller coaster for the both of you and the circle that you re in. One may leave the circle.of course there will always be the classic "taking sides"(you know what I mean). Stories passed around like who's fault is it or if there was another party involve. Too much drama, I cannot handle it.


Hey I am not saying the I am a perfect friend to all. I too have my own dilemmas and dramas. I have flaws and an attitude the some may not understand unless they know me. I may not always be around for those who is in need or give the last piece of kfc friend chicken to a friend that's hungrier than me (we share). One thing for sure is I can be real to those who are real to me.



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