Wednesday, March 19, 2008

One lucky lipstick!


My office mate Ian told me one time "Dude, you have to try the real thing..the real thing pare! " and I just laughed and said "Bug off! I'm happy the way I am"...

Its really funny how my friends tell me to stop going out with girls and try dating men instead. I guess they just can't get over the fact that I was converted. Yes, ladies and gents..gays and les.. I am a lisptick..uh.. lickstick..err.. lipstick lesbian.. and I don't deny it.. My mom accepted me and she even called me a gay... (I still laugh every time I remembered my mom's email)... sigh!

But you now what, it really annoys me when some people discriminates peeps like us. I call them "Kotrabidas". They're like acting as if we are aliens in this planet or we have a rare disease or something. Men! that totally gets my blood boiling. GRR! Uh.. Let me share to you guys my encounters with the "Kotrbidas"..

One time my girlfriend (now ex) and I was riding in a jeep when an old woman sat beside us. She stared blankly at us and then said.. "Wala nyan sa biblya! hindi nyo ba alam na kasalan yang ginagawa nyo! yada..yadaa..yada"... If my mom didn't teach me good manners, I could have squeezed the old lady's neck so hard until her eyes pop out her head!

I saw a poster one time when I was on my way home.. It says :
" Ang mga bakla, homosekswal at tomboy ay mapupunta sa impyerno"

Ok.. so they think they're god? God bless them..

During a drinking session (with my college kadas..).. my friend's friend told me.."Ang mga babae para lang sa lalake... kaya nga ginawa si adan at eba diba?" I just simply said "This is the 21st century.. things change.." But deep inside I wanted to kill him.

Honestly speaking, its really hurtful to know that some people wont stop criticizing and say bad things about les and homos.. Why can't they open their eyes and see that we are not a burden in the society? Why can't they accept that the fact that despite our preference, we are still human beings.. we laugh, we cry and get hurt.. we are special too..

I once heard from a friend.. " You can be whatever you want to be, as long as you don't break the rules of life"... I believe that being a les or a homo is not inherited from the family tree.. It comes out naturally.. You can either embrace your real self.. or pretend to be someone your really not and keep it inside you forever..

"I chose to come out.. and my Mom still loves me.. my real friends accepted me.. Boy! I'm one lucky lipstick! ha..ha!!"

ciao!ciao!


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